ADHD made your life Harder

          My only son diagnosed with ADHD when he just turn three. Not that surprise but still make me totally sad until now. Extra job that coming later after diagnosis not upseting me. Im more than willing to cooperate. But, the imagination about my son future running wild. What if he cannot life without his parents. What if he devasted with the fact that he is different. What if he had no friends, or difficult to find a wife. 

        I never blame anyone of my son condition, really. I knew enough that genetic play the important part of this disability, so I don't search who in our family that might actually ADHD. But my husband dare to ask if may I actually not take care our kid, or somehow our son hurt his head but Im not telling him. That lit my anger. So I emotionally respond him, and regret it later.

      I knew that he have slighty different cousin that he don't give me a detail. When our kid just born, he keep worrying if our an autis. Too early to check, he just born. But he not tell me anything. If only he tell me the truth, I will bring my son see doctor right away to more check up. When that sus cousin die, he still not honest with me. He said that he never ask his aunt about his cousin. 

      Finally when I bring my son see doctor and ADHD diagnosis come out, one of his aunt told me that my husband's dead cousin is an ADHD. Now my husband become very supportif dad. Can't be more grateful.